Ethel has Passed Away
It is with great sadness that we have to announce that on 27th August Ethel was put to sleep. Our decision was made in conjunction with veterinary professionals who identified that a sudden health deterioration was due to an inoperable tumour.
We are all very sad, but are also happy in the knowledge that she had a very long and healthy life and that we keep with us many special memories of our times together.
I had to capture some thoughts and memories on paper. Please find below what I wrote on the day she passed away.
That same evening, I felt compelled to marry these words with some fitting images from Ethel's time with us. You can find it here:
Ethel: An Elegy to a Truly Special Companion 1996 - 2017
It's a celebration of her life in words and pictures.
Elegy to Ethel, a Truly Special Companion
Our relationship began at the RSPCA in 1998
You were the smallest of four
But you looked so sweet curled up
And when you showed us your toilet training skills
We had to have you!
You came home with Geoffrey
A big "sausage" of a cat
And you became the best of friends
You fought him (for fun) and always won
You were a little minx in the early years!
We remember the time you stole a whole poussin from the kitchen!
And the day you and Geoffrey dragged a dead squirrel through the cat flap!
Sensible birds gave our garden a wide berth
And yet you were terrified of black plastic bags
Who knows what horrors you endured in your first two years?
You lived much of your life in Geoffrey's shadow
You followed him around and let him do the talking
But you were also your own girl
You stood up for your territory with neighbouring cats
And when you showed affection to us, our hearts melted.
All through your life you loved a good nap
In Cat Olympics you'd have been a gold medal sleeper
Your days passed so quickly, snoozing gently in the greenhouse
No wonder you used to wake us so early in the morning!
But we loved your company and we're missing it already.
When Geoffrey passed away in 2014
You strode out of his shadow and kept us all going.
Top Cat, and a glamorous Senior Kittizen
You took centre stage in Newsletters and latterly on YouTube
We're so glad we were able to capture your special moments.
You were the "least unwell" cat we've ever known
Yes, you scratched an eye and needed special treatment
And you broke a "toe" in a mysterious outdoor accident
But you lived a long, happy and healthy life
And we are honoured to have enjoyed your company for so long.
Ethel, did you understand how much our customers loved you?
They couldn't believe you were such an old cat.
You looked so good in photos and your videos were much liked
"How can a 21-year-old cat be so spritely and enjoy toys like Da Bird' they said.
But we sensed you were tiring, and today we had to let you go.
So farewell dearest Ethel
The silence at home without you is deafening
But memories of the good times we shared and
The sound of your purr and the gentleness of your nose rubs
Will remind us forever of a truly special companion.
And Finally ….
Please be assured that although we are sad at her passing, Ethel was a very old cat who enjoyed the life of Riley at all times.
We have so many happy memories of her and being able to share some of them with you is a great comfort.
Peter and Alison
"Dogs come when called. Cats take a message and get back to you."
"Of course, every cat is really the most beautiful woman in the room."
Edward Verrall Luca (essayist)